It’s important to realize that the term “ugly” can be highly arbitrary since what we consider to be beautiful or ugly may not be the same for someone else.
A lot has changed in the definition of beauty over time, so what we now deem beautiful may not be so in five or ten years.
Because of these factors, we have to exercise extreme caution when labeling something or someone as beautiful or ugly.
Using a Russian woman who got married a few years ago as an example, consider the hurtful remarks she endured regarding her appearance.
People would laugh at her and make comments about her body despite the fact that they did not know her. The woman’s appearance has completely changed after six years.
The couple, who were deeply in love in 2011, chose to share this with their online friends because they thought it was a happy occasion and that others would be happy for them as well.
Nevertheless, this did not occur since, as we are all aware, the majority of people on the internet display their negative aspects.
The hateful remarks started to appear as soon as the couple uploaded wedding photos to Facebook.
In a short period of time, the photos went viral, and countless comments regarding the bride’s look were made.
But most people laughed at her, even though they were the ones who encouraged her and wished her a happy marriage.
Luckily, the couple ignored the remarks they got because they were content with their marriage and didn’t give a damn about what random people on the internet thought.
If any of us are in a similar circumstance, this is the mindset we ought to adopt. We must acknowledge that every person behind the screen has personal issues and annoyances that they vent on social media in an attempt to make other people feel worse off.
There was a false marriage, according to a lot of comments, and the couple will eventually part ways because of their shared interest.
The reason behind the negative comments was that neither the bride nor the groom met the standards of beauty set by the society in which we live.
But what matters most is how the person standing next to us makes us feel, not how they look.
Regardless of the partner’s physical attributes, such as being slightly shorter or slightly heavier than us, what matters to each of us is feeling safe, secure, and loved when we arrive home with them. That couple’s wedding day was joyful and went exactly as planned.
As is often the case with weddings on the internet, after a while there was no more talk about it. Nobody really cares how you truly feel; they just make comments that hurt your feelings until they fade into the background.
Sadly for them, the couple’s wedding photos went viral even though they had always wanted to live a quiet life.
But eventually a reporter found them again. After recalling this story from a few years ago, the reporter decided to find out more about their lives instead of focusing on what else he could publish to grab the public’s attention. He was able to locate them rather rapidly.
The couple remained together and appeared to be content in their union.
But the “ugliest bride in the world” has an entirely different appearance, so if you didn’t know who she was, you wouldn’t be able to recognize her.
She had completely changed, from her hair to her new dress style to her weight loss. The bride obviously wanted to drastically change how she looked, and she did everything in her power to make this happen, as the photo below shows.
People were now questioning whether she felt confident in her own skin and didn’t trust herself, which may have been influenced by the remarks she had received regarding her wedding.
Despite the fact that her spouse was already in love with her and had never requested that she alter her appearance, it appears that she made the decision to change purely out of a desire to look different for him.
She changed, but her marriage to him remained the same, and they are still together.
She had received excellent treatment from her spouse prior to their marriage, and he frequently expressed his love and admiration for her.
Not even the models we aspire to be like, who have highly edited photos that make them appear almost identical to us, follow the beauty standards set by our culture. Almost no one looks like the models we see in magazines and on social media.
When they read happy comments on the internet, people feel compelled to ruin other people’s happiness because they aren’t truly happy in their own lives. We have to avoid letting the people and things on social media impact or depress us for this reason.
